90+ Wedding Wishes for Son and Daughter in Law

When your son marries, your family grows. A new daughter joins your home, and your son begins a life of his own. It is a day of pride, gratitude and a little emotion. These wedding wishes for a son and daughter in law help you put those feelings into words.

Below you will find more than 90 original messages from a mother, a father or both parents, and notes for a daughter and son-in-law, a granddaughter and her husband, and the parents of the bride. For a letter-length message, see our wedding letter guide, and for the couple together see wedding wishes for bride and groom.

Quick Tips Before You Write

1. Welcome the new daughter-in-law by name. It makes her feel part of the family from the first moment.
2. Tell your son you are proud and give him a short word of guidance.
3. Keep your wishes gentle and free of pressure. Avoid mentioning children or expectations.
4. Offer your help and your home. These are lasting gifts to a young couple.
5. Speak from your own experience of marriage. A short honest sentence is more valuable than advice.

Wedding Wishes for My Son

From a parent to a son on his wedding day.

1. My dear son, today I am the proudest parent in the world. Congratulations on your wedding.
2. You have grown into a man of honour. May your marriage be steady and happy.
3. Treat your wife with kindness and patience. That is the whole secret.
4. I wish you a home of peace and laughter.
5. You have brought us joy since the day you were born. We wish you the same joy.
6. Remember to say thank you, and remember to listen.
7. May you be a loving husband and a good son-in-law.
8. Your father and I are here for you, always.
9. Take care of your wife, and she will take care of you.
10. May your marriage be built on honesty and trust.
11. Be gentle with each other. Marriage is a partnership.
12. We are so proud of the choices you have made.
13. May you find happiness in your home and success in your work.
14. Dear son, you have made us the happiest parents today.

Wedding Wishes for My New Daughter-in-Law

A warm welcome for the woman who is joining your family.

1. Welcome to our family, dear daughter-in-law. We are so happy you are here.
2. You have made our son very happy, and that makes us happy too.
3. Please think of our home as your own.
4. We promise to treat you with love, patience and respect.
5. You are not a daughter-in-law to us. You are a daughter.
6. May your married life be filled with peace and understanding.
7. Thank you for joining our family with such grace.
8. You are loved and welcome here always.
9. We admire your kindness and your good character.
10. May your marriage be gentle and joyful.
11. We hope you will always feel free to turn to us.
12. Congratulations, dear. We look forward to many happy years together.
13. Our family is richer with you in it.
14. Thank you for bringing so much happiness into our son’s life.

Wedding Wishes for Son and Daughter in Law Together

Messages that speak to both of them at once.

1. Congratulations to our son and our new daughter. May your marriage be long and happy.
2. We wish you both a lifetime of patience, kindness and joy.
3. May your new home be filled with warmth and laughter.
4. Our hearts are full as we watch you begin your life together.
5. May you always support each other through every season.
6. We are proud of you both and thankful for your happiness.
7. Our wish is simple: that you will be good to each other.
8. May you build a home of peace and respect.
9. We are here for you both, now and always.
10. May your marriage be an example of faithfulness for your family.
11. Wishing you strength in difficulty and gratitude in ease.
12. May you always find time for each other.
13. Two good people have found each other. We could not be happier.
14. Congratulations, and welcome to this new chapter.

Wedding Wishes for a Daughter and Son-in-Law

When your daughter marries, you gain a son. These messages are for them.

1. Our dear daughter, you are a gift to our home. We wish you happiness in your marriage.
2. Dear son-in-law, welcome to our family. We trust you with our greatest treasure.
3. May your home be filled with calm and kindness.
4. We are so proud of the woman you have become, dear daughter.
5. Be gentle and patient with each other.
6. Dear son-in-law, thank you for your respect and care for our daughter.
7. Our door is always open to you both.
8. May your marriage be a source of joy to both our families.
9. We wish you a long, healthy and peaceful life.
10. Our daughter, you will always be our little girl, but we are happy to see you start your own home.
11. May your children, when they come, learn kindness from your example.
12. Welcome to the family, son. We look forward to sharing many meals.

Wedding Wishes for a Granddaughter and Her Husband

Grandparents often cherish a grandchild’s wedding deeply.

1. My dear granddaughter, you have always been a joy to me. May your marriage be happy.
2. Welcome to our family, dear grandson-in-law. Please look after her well.
3. I am so proud of the woman you have become.
4. Be patient with each other, as your grandmother and I were.
5. May your home be filled with the laughter of those you love.
6. Remember to always speak kindly, even when you disagree.
7. We wish you good health and a long life together.
8. Your grandfather and I are with you in spirit and in thought.
9. May your marriage be as strong as our family roots.
10. Thank you for the joy you have brought to our old age.
11. May you find in each other a friend for life.
12. You make us proud. Be happy, my dear.

Congratulations on the Wedding of Your Daughter or Son

Messages for the parents of the bride or groom, from friends, neighbours or colleagues.

1. Congratulations on the wedding of your daughter. We wish her a happy home.
2. Congratulations on your son’s marriage. May the new couple enjoy happiness and health.
3. Your family must be so happy today. Congratulations to you all.
4. Thank you for raising such a lovely young person. Best wishes to the couple.
5. Warm congratulations to you and your family on this joyful occasion.
6. May your new daughter-in-law bring you great joy.
7. May your son-in-law be a source of support for your family.
8. Wishing you many happy years watching your children flourish.
9. We are delighted to share in your happiness.
10. Congratulations on this milestone. May your family always be close.
11. Wishing you and your family good health and happiness.
12. Our sincere congratulations to the proud parents.

Short Wedding Cards for a Son and Daughter-in-Law

Short lines for a card or a gift tag.

1. Congratulations to our son and our new daughter. With love, Mum and Dad.
2. Welcome to the family, dear daughter-in-law.
3. Wishing you a lifetime of happiness, our dear children.
4. With pride and love on your wedding day.
5. May your marriage be filled with peace and understanding.
6. Our home is yours. With love.
7. Congratulations, son. We are proud of you.
8. Wishing you a gentle start to your life together.
9. With all our love, from your parents.
10. May your hearts be forever united.
11. Welcome to our family with open arms.
12. With joy in our hearts, we wish you well.

Sample Notes You Can Copy

Sample message from a mother to her son and new wife

Dear Ali and Sana, congratulations on your wedding. Ali, you have made us proud. Sana, welcome to our family. We wish you both a marriage filled with understanding. With all our love, Mum.

Sample message from a father

Dear son, today I see a man of character and kindness. Take care of your wife and honour her family. May your home be full of peace. Your proud father.

Sample note to the parents of the groom

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Khan, congratulations on your son’s wedding. May he and his wife enjoy a long and happy marriage. With warm wishes, the Ahmed family.

Frequently Asked Questions

What should a mother write to her son on his wedding?

Tell him you are proud, wish him a peaceful home, and add a gentle piece of advice such as being patient and kind to his wife.

What do you say to your new daughter-in-law?

Welcome her warmly by name, tell her she is loved, and invite her to treat your home as her own.

How do you congratulate the parents of the groom?

Express joy for their family, wish the couple well, and thank the parents for raising a fine young person. A short note is enough.

Can I send the same message to a niece or nephew?

Yes, with small changes. See our post on wedding wishes for a niece and nephew for family messages.

Final Thoughts

A son’s wedding is a turning point for any parent. The words you share on that day will be remembered, both by your son and by the daughter who joins your family. Speak kindly and from the heart.

For more wishes, visit our Kind Words category, or read the main wedding wishes guide.